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by our predecessors. Those were different days. Today, we are solely concerned with
                     ourselves.  We  feel  envious  of  our  neighbours’  advancement.  We  get  uptight  and
                     unhappy as a result.

                (2)  Our  forefathers  led  lives  that  were  significantly  different  from  ours  now.  Their  lives
                     were largely centred on the concept of ’simple living and high thinking,’ with people
                     content with whatever they could achieve after putting in a lot of effort. They were
                     unconcerned about having a lot of money. They achieved the mental satisfaction and
                     enrichment they desired.

                (3)  Our forefathers’ families  did  not  have the same “structural”  structure as ours. They
                     were happy than we were because they lived in a close-knit joint family arrangement.
                     They  were  concerned  about  each  other.  The  brothers  spent  their  childhoods  with
                     their cousins. They share a tie of love that is difficult to find in today’s nuclear family.
                     Tension and stress were alleviated by the family’s emotional padding.
                (4)  In the nuclear family, however, when cousins are self-centred, they may not  recognise
                     one another. Family conflicts can lead to divisions. This has the potential to damage
                     the family’s psyche.

                (5)  Back then, the children were able to grow up in a healthy atmosphere because of the
                     joint family system. Respect, tolerance, accountability, integrity, and other values were
                     instilled in the children. In the long term, they evolved into better human beings than
                     the current generation. Our forefathers were delighted when their children grew up
                     to be 'honest' people.
                (6)  Today,  however,  we  are  content  only  with  material  goals.  We  are  willing  to  use  all
                     measures  necessary  to  achieve  that  goal.  Our  life  philosophy  has  turned  out  to  be
                     completely Machiavellian. Our forefathers had a dream of making India the best country
                     in  the  world.  They  were  willing  to  make  a  variety  of  personal  sacrifices  in  order  to
                     achieve their goals. Their joy was linked to the happiness of millions of Indian brothers
                     and sisters.

                (7)  People these days, on the other hand, are eager to relocate to the West in order to
                     live  comfortably.  They  strive  to  avoid  the  ills  of  Indian  society  rather  than  address
                     them. They frequently succeed in foreign countries. However, they become estranged
                     from their motherland in the process. Their childhood memories and the connection
                     they left behind linger, and this ensures that despite achieving all they set out to, they
                     are not happy. The fact that they are separated from their ailing parents becomes a
                     source of anxiety for them. It gets difficult for them to return because their children
                     will struggle to acclimatise to the Indian culture and way of life.

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